171. Creating a Smooth Morning Routine for Stress-Free School Days
If you're anything like me, the transition from those laid-back summer vibes to the structured hustle of the school year can be a bit of a doozy. But don’t worry—I've got your back! With just a few tweaks, we can turn those chaotic, wild mornings into calm, connected, and dare I say, enjoyable starts to our days.
Today, I’m sharing my top five action steps to help you create a morning routine that not only works but actually feels good. So grab your favorite cup of coffee, get comfy, and let’s dive in!
Why a Calm Morning Routine Matters
Mornings set the tone for the entire day. If we kick things off feeling frazzled and stressed, that energy is going to stick with us—and our kids—all day long. On the flip side, a peaceful, well-organized morning can lead to more productive, positive days for everyone.
But this isn’t about being perfect. It’s about making small, doable changes that add up to a big difference. So, as you read maybe pick just one thing you want to try out with your family and start small. Okay, without further ado, here are my five go-to steps for transforming your mornings from chaotic to calm.
1. Prep the Night Before
The secret to a seamless morning lies in the preparation done the evening before. Taking some time each night to get things in order can drastically reduce morning stress and set everyone up for success.
Here’s how I do it:
Lay Out Outfits: Have everyone’s clothes ready to go, right down to the socks and shoes. No more last-minute “Where are my shoes?” panic!
Pack Backpacks and Lunches: Get those backpacks loaded up and lunches prepped the night before. Bonus points if you set up a breakfast station, so it’s grab-and-go in the morning.
Take Care of You: Don’t forget to set out your own workout clothes or outfit for the day. Trust me, it’s a game-changer. I also prep my AirPods and pull up a meditation on my phone so it’s ready to go when my alarm goes off.
Action Step: Tonight, spend just 15 minutes getting ready for tomorrow. You’ll be amazed at how much smoother your morning will be!
2. Set the Morning Mood with Lighting and Music
Who says mornings have to be harsh? Creating a calming, inviting atmosphere can make getting up early a little more bearable—for everyone. Because no one really likes waking up to a blaring alarm or a mom ripping off the covers and yelling that we’re already late.
Here’s how I like to set the mood:
Get up before the kids: Even just 10 minutes makes a difference. For me that’s time to get my morning coffee, open the windows, take in the sunlight and then get going.
Gentle Lighting: Slowly brighten the house by opening the blinds and letting in that beautiful natural light. It’s a much gentler way to wake up.
Soothing Music: Start the day with some soft, uplifting music. Keep it calm at first, then ramp up the energy as everyone wakes up fully.
Wake-Up Rituals: This one’s for you—maybe a quick meditation or a few stretches to get centered before the day kicks off.
Action Step: Tomorrow morning, try playing some soft music and letting the sunlight in. Notice how the mood in your house shifts.
3. Establish Consistent Expectations and Checklists
Consistency is the secret sauce, my friend. It brings clarity, reduces decision fatigue, and makes mornings run like a well-oiled machine.
Here’s how to do it:
Create a Morning Routine: Outline the steps everyone needs to follow—like getting dressed, eating breakfast, brushing teeth, and packing up.
Visual Checklists: These are especially helpful for the little ones (or anyone who gets a bit distracted). Put the checklist somewhere everyone can see it—fridge, bedroom door, wherever works!
Reinforce and Repeat: Go over the routine with your kids and give them gentle reminders as needed. Before you know it, these steps will become second nature.
Action Step: Make a simple morning checklist with your kids and post it where it’s easy to see. Then watch the magic happen as they start following it on their own.
4. Manage Time Effectively with Timers and Alarms
Timer and alarms can be your secret weapon. It’s almost like having an assistant that keeps you on track and is the key to getting out the door on time without the the last-minute chaos.
Here’s my trick:
Set Specific Times: Assign times to each part of your morning routine—like breakfast from 7:00-7:20 AM and out the door by 7:45 AM.
Use Timers and Alarms: Set alarms for key transitions. Make it fun with your favorite alarm tones or songs! For me just having an alarm set 5 minutes before we need to be in the car is a helpful warning bell for all of us.
Build in Buffer Time: Give yourself a little wiggle room in case of surprises. An extra 10-15 minutes can make all the difference.
Action Step: Set some alarms for your key morning tasks and see how it helps keep everyone on track.
5. Involve Your Kids in Building Their Routines
When kids have a say in their routines, they’re way more likely to stick to them—and feel pretty proud of themselves too.
Here’s how to get them involved:
Collaborate on the Routine: Sit down with your kids and ask what they think will help them in the morning. You might be surprised by their ideas!
Age-Appropriate Responsibilities: Give them tasks they can handle, like making their bed or grabbing their own breakfast.
Encourage Independence: Celebrate their efforts! A little praise goes a long way in building their confidence.
Action Step: This week, have a family meeting to talk about the morning routine. Assign roles and responsibilities, and watch your kids take ownership.
Pulling It All Together
Implementing these steps might take a little time and patience, but trust me, the results are worth it. Start with one or two changes, then add more as you go. And remember, it’s all about creating a morning routine that works for your family and feels good.
I hope these tips inspire you to create a morning routine that brings more peace and positivity into your home. Small, intentional changes can lead to significant improvements in your daily life.
I’d love to hear from you! Which of these steps are you most excited to try? Do you have any morning routine tips that work wonders for your family? Share your thoughts and experiences in the comments below or tag me on social media @positively.jessie
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